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Is abstinence a sure way to prevent unwanted pregnancy?

I wants to ensure that no woman get pregnant for me at this stage because if it happen, it wil affect my career and all my plans and as a result, i have tried to abstined from having sex but am affriad of this will affect me in time to come. Though my GF has been unhappy over this development for quite some time and she sometimes called it quit but she later come back. Now am emotionally disturbed and confused on how to go about this issues. Is there any other sure way to be safe other than using condom which she frawned at. You advice is highly needed.

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1. use a condom no matter what or get her on birthcontrol
2. wow, well yes the only sure way is to not have sex. good luck.
3. Try two condoms.
4. That's like asking if I don't take the poison will it kill me. Of course if you abstain you won't get pregnant. If you don't know the simple things like that you should NOT be having sex.
5. If she doesn't want you to use a condom then she will have to go see her GP and ask for some sort of contraceptive! If she says No to that too then Ruuuuuuuuuuun!!!! No...Just kidding...Seriously! If she doesn't want to use anything at all then she may not be the Girl for you! She has to respect your wishes too........ Good Luck
6. If you wish to abstain, it is unfair to expect your girlfriend to have to do the same. As a matter of honour you should finish with her and let her get on with her life.
7. You might have decided on abstinence for yourself....but you can still please her and giver her satisfaction and gratification..... there are so many ways......
8. Get a vasectomy or abstain. That's it man.
9. Dump her; if she truly valued you she would want you to be happy more than she wants sex.
10. well, besides putting on condoms, u could also request that ur gf pop some of those anti-pregnancy pills, just to be extra extra safe.
11. If your GF doesnt want you to use condoms..i would dump her. Abstinence is the ONLY way to prevent pregnacies. Condoms can save your life and she doesnt want you to use them? Its great that your being careful and planning your future. DOnt let this issue confuse or depress you. If YOU dont want children at your age it is up to YOU to prevent it from happening. If you are going to have sex, use a condom EVERY time.
12. I'm unsure as to exactly what you're asking, but abstinence is the only SURE way to prevent a pregnancy. There are various forms of birth control (i.e. condoms, the pill, etc.) but none of them are 100% effective. If your girlfriend can't respect your decision to abstain from sex, then she can't respect you.
13. abstinence=zero pregnancy
14. Get another gf who is mature enough not to frown at using a condom.
15. stick with oral sex. or get a vasectomy if you want to be sure. birth control is a hard problem. hope for a male birth control pill. intercourse always entails a risk. you can't depend on the woman to make sure. make sure yourself.
16. Unfortunately yes, it's the ONLY sure way. It wont affect you in times to come, you'll simply have more wet dreams and hand jobs. There are other ways to make your GF come without your penis being involved and vice versa.
17. wow,have you ever heard of condoms or of contraceptives? if your gf is unhappy,ask her to take contraceptive pills & everything'll be just fine. Good Luck
18. Yes, it is a sure way to prevent pregnancy, but it might not be the best way. I don't know how old you are or what stage your relationship is at, but most adults at some point want to have sex with a romantic partner. There are many kinds of birth control available. You need to educate yourself and you need to talk to your girlfriend about your concerns. Chances are, she doesn't want an unexpected baby either. If you have a real relationship, you should be able to be honest with each other and solve problems together.
19. gud luck mate, gotta think bout the girl how you gonna please her etc etc
20. abstinence is the ONLY sure way to prevent unwanted pregnancy. It will not effect your later performance. I abstained for many years prior to marrying my wife and all it took was a little bit of practice to get back in the swing of things. Additionally, condoms are not a sure way. Occasionally they break. I know people who have gotten pregnant this way.
21. Abstinence is the BEST way to prevent unwanted pregnancy. It sounds to me that you have a good head on your shoulders and you know what you want. Abstinence will not affect you in the future no matter what you may think. As for your GF being unhappy about you not wanting to have sex with her, she has to understand your side of the arguement. As for the condom thing, if she doesnt like condoms then maybe she should try the pill or the depo-shot they are both effective against pregnancy. Dont beat yourself up over this and dont give in, stick to what you believe in and make the right choice.
22. So abstinence is when you don't have sex!
23. freeze some sperm, and get the snip if you are serious.
24. Tell her that if theres no condom, theres no sex. I can't understand why your girlfriend would turn up her nose, its better than nothing. Is she on the pill? Do you think she wants to get pregnant??? Or are you just being cautious. Theres always a possibility of getting pregnant with intercourse!!
25. ABSINTHE IS A SURE WAY OF AVOIDING PREGNANCY IF U DRINK ENOUGH OF IT
26. to prevent pregnancy 100% go without! but wheres the fun in that? condoms and the pill are your next best option. It's highly unlikely she will get preggers that way! Should you be having sex if you are this unsure about it and why is she frowning on such a sensible solution!?