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if your boyfriend says he will be studying for a major test this week?

and he wont be able to call u all week..what will u think... i felt bad cuz i thought he couldnt call me for 5 mins during the week and tell me how he is!! its a big career assessment test so its a major thing but still???

Public Comments

1. he can call for a few minutes. he's not studying EVERY minute of the day. bring him lunch or dinner. call him. bring him snacks.
2. smothering a guy is the quickest way to get rid of him give him some space plus, you really don't want him to blame you for doing poorly on the test do you? that would suck for the relationship i would think....
3. ouch!!
4. Don't girls masturbate? geez
5. If he is a very focused person, then I can understand his wishes. He doesn't want to be distracted. It's only a week. Wait it out and see how things are after the week is over.
6. Don't chase him let him chase you. If he's doing an assignment then let him do it. If you don't text or call him he'll start to miss you and he'll call you, which ultimately will make you feel better because HE wanted to talk to YOU instead of it being the other way round.
7. Yeh, he could at least call you for 5 minutes between his studing. But think if he talks to you for that five minutes, he might get your conversation in with the answers for this big test.
8. omg hun i am SO like you! my bf said he had exams all week and wouldnt be able to text me...and i was like "how long does it take to send just a little message saying you love me or you miss me or something...anything??" i know...i get suspicious too about his commitment and that if i were you, i'd wait until after his assessment, and wait for him to come crawling back to you (thats what i did)
9. There's no reason for him NOT to call. Nobody study's 24/7!
10. He'll need a break, so he should call you on his breaks. Its understandable that you want to hear from him. On the other hand, don't nag him either. If he doesn't call at all, then reconsider you relationship. It may be a sign that he is no longer interested. But, hopefully not.
11. There is not much you can do to make him call. I would have told him right then and there, that if I was not worth a 2 or 3 minute call every day, then he could hit the road!! But that's just me!! If i am going to make time for my man, he better make time for me, even if it is only a couple of minutes!!
12. You should be impressed that he's so focussed! Maybe it's not so much that he doesn't want to talk to you, but that if he does, either he'll miss you and lose concentration, or you'll nag for just a little bit more of his time. It's not that long to wait - why not spend the time planning a treat for him for studying so hard? It's not like he's said "I'll be playing my X-Box for a week, so could you leave me alone?"
13. Give him a bit of space during this one week and see if he gets in touch after that.