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There is this girl in my college class who is 7 years older than I am. The only reason I post this question is to see what signs someone who is 30 might show of interest. This girl in my class always picks me to read along with when she forgets her book. Also, when studing with her the other day one on one, in which she requested for us to meet at the libray the day after class, she started asking some personal questions like: Do you have any siblings. What are your career plans and others I ask her if she had any kids, and she said NO! I am not even married Plus she is always is "accidentally" bumping into my leg and foot during class. I have heard that women will sit with there legs crossed towards a person they like leaning towards them, she does. I am not sure that this is a sign though, is it? After our big test. I was outside the classroom on a couch. Anyway, she comes and sits right next to me a a two person couch, not across at the other couch. Signs of attraction? What do I do? I like her.

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  1. tell her you like her... maybe then she will be like "i like you too" cause it sure seems like she does. good luck!
  2. dude just tell her, "hey I don't mean to forward, but I like you, would like you to maybe someday have a coffee and some interesting conversation?" this will grab her and you can take it from there!
  3. ask her out. whats wrong with you? ask her if she was hungry and would like to grab a bite. take it from there.
  4. ask her out dude, sounds like she likes u.. who cares if shes 7 years older
  5. She likes you, now the question is do you like her? if you do make the first move..... GOOD LUCK
  6. she could be showing signs of interest. tell her you like her and see what happens. good luck with that!
  7. LOL..you make it like 30 year old women have secret powers of flirting. I'm 31 and if I liked a guy I would flat out show my interest. No kicking his leg or sharing a book. It's possible that she's just comfortable around you. The only real way to know is to ask her out. I mean she's clearly made it known that she at least enjoys talking to you. What's the worse she can say...NO.
  8. I think that if you told her that you like her she would most likely say that she likes you too.......... It sure seems like she does so I think you have a strong posibility :-)
  9. go for it
  10. She REALLY likes you!! she is trying her hardest to get to know you!! all you need to do now is flirt with her so she knows you like her back and then casually ask her, maybe after a study date, if she would go to dinner and a movie with you. She would LOVE it!!! Good LUck!! it sounds like youve got something good going :)
  11. I think she likes you, don't tell her you like her though, ask her to go get a cup of coffee or tea or something.
  12. Seems like she likes you as a friend. She was trying to break the ice with those questions. Give it a little more time, and if things keep going the way they are, be polite and ask her if she sould like to do something with you. If she says yes, then don't push her into a lot all at once. If she says no, keep the friendly connection. There's always hope.
  13. Just ask her out to dinner silly!! It definitely sounds like she is interested in you. Have fun...age is only a number.
  14. sounds like she likes you try talking to her outside of class or even if your studying together talk about some other small talk thats not about school to get to know her better. maybe if your studying go to a coffee shop some where outside of school where you guys can be more comfotable and relax or just simply ask her to coffee or something small. good luck i hope everything works out for you
  15. sounds like you're just friends who happen to study together... and the questions she asks aren't very personal... sounds like she's just making friendly conversation... doesn't sound like a real love connection there... however, if you like her you could make a move... have you tried flirting or flattery? see if she reciprocates... if so there might be something there...
  16. Uhhh, yeah, she's telling you... no, screaming at you... with body language that she's attracted to you. Just ask her out on a date and see how it goes. But be ready for anything... she sounds like a tiger.
  17. become friends with her, and take her out has friends like movies, dinner. coffe. See how the date goes and if you feel a vibe then make your move
  18. One or both of you sound a little immature. I would expect her to be a little more mature about things if she were interested in you. This all sounds like something from jr high. Why don't you ask her? I'll pass on the 10 points btw...
  19. I am 30 myself, it sounds as if she has some interest in you. If she isn't married and has no children and really said that with passion, she was wanting you to understand that she is not tied down at all. I would give it a little time, talk some more and comment her. Tell her some days, I like that shirt, or your hair smells good. See how she responds. Ask if she wants to go have lunch somewhere after class. Now this is all granted that you are mature enough for her. Sometimes 23 year old me still haven't matured. Give it a try though, just be good to her!!
  20. just ask her weather she likes you and if you have the same feeling for her than you can tell her your true feeling about her.
  21. Listen carefully. Ready? STOP THINKING INTO THIS!!! I don't care if her legs were crossed a certain way and she bumped into your foot and all the planets were aligned. None of that matters. How do you feel? Do you feel that she likes you? I get the feeling she likes you and is giving you signs to get you to make a move. Soooo, make a move hot stuff! Tell her you dig her and would like to get to know her better. Invite her out for ice cream or a slushee (my new date idea :) and a walk. A man goes after what he wants, and says to hell with 'signs' and whatnot. You don't need permission to ask this woman out by waiting for 21 signals from her. Be a man.
  22. don't play games, & don't be shy. ask her out to lunch or dinner. see how she answers. remember that she's older & has already dealt with young guys that didn't know how to act. she may just feel comfortable talking to you. only one way to find out.
  23. I am a 30 yr old female and by the time we reach this age we dont bullsh!ty about relationships. We go for what we want and if u dont want us dont waist our time. She is flirting with u and she likes you, so ask her out, what can it hurt? She says no, no big whop. Ask her out and answer her quetions. I love asking and answering questions. SHE likes you, if shes 30 I dont know why she just doesnt want to ask u out. Shes feeling 4 answers. She doesnt want to get shot down thats y she doesnt come right out and ask u. Trust me ask her. Good Luck
  24. Do you need a woman to hit you over the head before you realize she likes you?
  25. HELOOO! wake up. the age difference doesnt matter. She obviously Likes you and you like her. There is definite sparks. I say have a fling at it and If it doesnt work out then dont worry. You're still young
  26. wow..i think she likes you...i'm a 29yrs old female...the way that girl act is the way i act if I LIKE THE GUY....CUZ OFCOURSE IF I DONT LIKE THE GUY..."WHY THE HECK I'LL GIVE HIM A SIGN THAT I DO LIKE HIM?? ISN'T??" anyways one way to find out....ASK HER!!! maybe lets start by asking for her number or either giving out your phone number....my bf now his the one who gave his number....i'm the one who called him...i mean if you guys talked over the phone...you could tell if theres a connection or not...cuz you dont feel bored talking to that person.....so go ahead give it a shot maybe she's waiting for you.....so dont be slow...work it out!!! good luck
  27. simply ask her for coffee, or be frank and ask her on a date... either way it would be fun.
  28. no, no , no no....DO NOT TELL HER you like her. dating is a big game. just like you're sitting here going crazy wondering if she likes you, she's probably doing the same. if you tell her, it will take all the fun out of it. sounds like she's flirting with you to see if you will flirt back. she doens't know if you like her either, so she's flirting really mildly to test you out. you should say something like, "what are you doing this weekend" or " we should hang out sometime," etc. something that would lead you to getting her number and having contact with her outside of school. so, if you bring up the whole weekend thing...don't try and be a cool guy and act like you have some huge plans...that's gonna back fire. tell her you don't have any plans...and see what she says...she'll probably say something like, "me neither, maybe we should do something together." well, you get my point.
  29. It's obvious she likes you and is giving hints like crazy. Ask her out for a date and go from there.
  30. You sound young I am guessing 18 which means she is 25 if she wants you she will let you know. Apart from that she may look at you as a little brother type, and is trying to be nice.
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