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There is this girl in my college class who is 7 years older than I am. The only reason I post this question is to see what signs someone who is 30 might show of interest. This girl in my class always picks me to read along with when she forgets her book. Also, when studing with her the other day one on one, in which she requested for us to meet at the libray the day after class, she started asking some personal questions like: Do you have any siblings. What are your career plans and others I ask her if she had any kids, and she said NO! I am not even married Plus she is always is "accidentally" bumping into my leg and foot during class. I have heard that women will sit with there legs crossed towards a person they like leaning towards them, she does. I am not sure that this is a sign though, is it? After our big test. I was outside the classroom on a couch. Anyway, she comes and sits right next to me a a two person couch, not across at the other couch. Signs of attraction? What should I do?

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1. totally
2. Just put it out there. "hey if you're interested do you want to go out ______?" it's easier then most people think and you can always laugh and say "no as friends" if she gets all weird. :) good luck!
3. Ask her out:)
4. She sounds like a cradle snatcher
5. It could be shesa flirting or wants to get to know you personally. Who knows
6. OOOOhhhhhhhhh, she is interested honey! You should start slow and ask her if she wants to grab a drink somewhere or study sometime. See how she responds from there and then you will have a better idea how receptive she is. Good Luck!
7. She's definitely into you!! Casually ask her out for a cup of coffee or something and get to know her! Good luck!
8. Take a chance ask her out, If she is interested she will willing accept. have fun and good luck.
9. rookie... she is in "the prime" of her life. Just use a condom w/ spermacide
10. I would have to say YES. The question is how do you feel about her? If you like her than pursue it. If you don't think you guys would ever work out than don't. Or you can just have fun, shoot your in college. Live the college life and have fun, fun, fun.
11. if your interested, let her know, ask HER on a study date and go from there o.- if your not, which is somewhat how you come off, let her know that you're not interested in that way...but let her down ''easy'' so as you might be able to be aquanauts or friends even and not to hurt her fealings. its true crossing your legs towards someone you like is something we do. we also seem more attentive. and we ask personal questions to get to know them better. i think she's into you.
12. hmmm...u shud ask her out, spend some quality time with her and rest will follow
13. It sounds like she is attracted to you. That doesn't say anything about whether she'd ever act on her attraction. When I was her age I was attracted to some younger guys. Most of them I considered only good for eye candy. There was another I considered a good friend who I never would have slept with. There were a few who I enjoyed for an evening or a weekend. There were none who I wanted a serious relationship with. I'm not saying that she's anything like me. I'm just saying that attraction isn't always the same as interest and either one is a long step from getting involved.
14. Yes, she is attracted and toying with you. This is classic of women who are use to dating men their age and younger. I am one of them. We toy with you this way also. So, be careful that she is not just entertaining herself by looking for you to be at awe that she is interested. She has an ego to feed, don't become her ego meal. You are 23 and she is 30. Ask her for a date. She will comply and make it a cheap one. If she goes on a second, you know that she is into you as a person. If she declines, you were just her ego meal. On your first date, talk about May-December relationships and has she ever considered dating men younger than herself. She may lie and say no---she has dated younger men, trust me! That does not mean she has had sex with them though. Good Luck.
15. Whoo, this is a tough one. I can tell you honestly, my first impression when I read this is that she is just being friendly. She thinks that you are very interesting and she obviously feels very comfortable around you. When she starts to demand more of your time, like calling you on the phone, emailing or the BIG ONE asks you out, then I think it will be safe to assume that she is attracted to you. At this point I would wait just a little while- give her another 30 days and see what happens. If the accidental bumps get more frequent or she stares at you alot or again asks for more of your time, she is interested. Good luck
16. She likes you and is trying to find out more about you. If you like her and would like to get more involved, then just talk to her, carry on a conversation, ask what her hobbies and interests are, if she's into sports, art, dance, computer games, movies, etc. If you find you have things you both like get her phone number so you can talk on the phone, or if you both want to see a movie coming out, ask her out. Doesn't have to be a big expensive deal, just to the movies and maybe coffee after, or out to lunch, whatever would give you more time together. If you are not interested in getting closer to her, then just be polite like you would to any fellow student or teacher but nothing further.
17. shes into you ask her if she wants to "study" hehe