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What do you think of this situation?

Recently my bf and I had an argument (we've been dating exclusive for 6 months) because he never makes plans in advance, is never intimate with me, good sex, but no intimacy, he rarely calls me, prefers text messages & internet communication, etc..Spends most of his time working on his car or with his friends,etc...He has never said he loves me, we never talk about the future, I'm his first relationship in 5 years..what do you think of this? Please be honest. I've never dated a guy like this before..most guys fall head overheels for me and I dunno what to do or how to take this! He's quiet, not very sociable, etc...He's 28 and I'm 33..we're both in our careers and moderately successful..HELP..need advice..should I stay or go?

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what situation.. thats not a situation, thats .. Dont know!
Do you love him? If not, GO!!! It doesn't sound like you are getting what you need out of the relationship...and it doesn't seem like he cares. There is someone better for you out there!
He's the perfect man. God bless him. Normally I'd give the advice that would be necessary, but I'd rather know that I let the woman squirm for once.
go leave him before he drops the bomb he only wants the sex
I'd say go before you develop deep feelings for him! Surely it is sometimes possible to change somebody like him but - do you really wanna bother? Isn't it easier to find somebody who you get better along with?
Maybe he had a hard time with his last relationship and he's afraid of moving to fast. For some guys, to admit that they deeply care for someone, even through they're actions, means making themselves open to be hurt all over again. Talk to him about it. He may just need you to help him open up. And as for the person above me, yeah, it might be easier, but love isn't easy. You can't just give up. If you give up here you'll get the wrong idea of what love is and none of your relationships will work afterwards. DON'T TAKE THE EASY WAY OUT!!!
Dear Maybe that's just him he is not like ur ex's i mean who were fall head overheels for you maybe he is just simple and not talkative and maybe he just cant express him self in a good way and don't forget the age gap between you 2 so u need to adapt and try to change him by finding what he likes to talk about or do and do it tog other I hope i helped some how ♥
well he seems like kinda of a shy person wen it comes to his emotional feelings and expressing himself, u say he hasnt been in a relationship in 5 years so there might be a story behind that reason why u kno wat i mean? maybe u should make up a plan for u and him to spend they whole day together or a plan to spend the whole night together, think of sumthin romantic but make him feel comfrontable amnd express yo feelings about him tell him verbal way and in a sexual way, it might open him up u kno or just set him down one day tell him how u feel about him, and ask him if he feels the same about u or how he does feel about u, tell him that u are worried about if he doesnt feel the same cuz he never tells u how he does feel comunication is the main ingrediant in a realtionship!!! he seems like he does care but he just wont open up for some reason, just talk to him...