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ex girlfriend / best friend problems!! please help!!!!?
My ex of 3 months, who is my best friend! And I am still in love with, recently moved to another state, 8 hours away... From me = ( !!! Anyway, we talk daily and when we can, spend a lot of time together! Since we were together for almost a year! We don't have any other real friends cause we totally was always with one another we got engaged for maybe a month but decided it was best to wait!! She is planning on staying where she is and I have no plans on moving closer to her (and she don't want me to) she is 18 and I am 30, she is going to be attending college and starting her career soon. I will be starting back to school in January as well! Anywho! She is meeting new people and I am left with no one and have a hard time making new friends... I want her to have fun and enjoy herself, but can be jealous at times. We agreed to be open and help each other through this hard time by letting one another in on each others lifes (dates, friends, etc.) she is meeting new people via the internet and doing new things! She feels, in my opinon, hesitant to be open with me due to my being scared and jealous of someone winning her heart and does not want to hurt me! I would do anything for her and wait as long as I need!!! But feel that it might be the wrong thing to do! No guarantees in life! I want to remain her best friend and support her in everything she does but can't deal with being hurt again! What should I do I can be more specific if needed thanks and be nice this is the girl I love and want to marry : )
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- well i dunno 8 hrs. away thats tuff plus shes going to college and 18 and ur 30 shes got lot of exploring but hopefully she'll realize that ur a great person ...great people are hard to find...but why doesnt she want u to move closer? if u are willing ya kno .....thats not good that she doesnt want u to ....like i was about the same age difference with my ex and i thought the grass was greener on the other side we broke up and i realized it wasnt then it was too late so i was sad :(
