He flew to see me and there was chemistry he gave me his job website pictures of his daughters etc etc so I know quite a lot about him.We miss each other a lot but my son will not be graduating highschool for 31/2 years or I would move closer he lives in florida and I in SC.He can't move because of his career. He said he would make arrangements to fly me to Florida but still has not done so I asked him to promise me he would do it today. He said he would miss me more after I am there and leave again.How can we make this work?????What can I say to him to see how many times we can see each other per month and convince him that I am not moving until my son graduates.I guess I want more of a plan for the future that we can both work with.I know I am going on and on about this any advice would be helpful .